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89 Active Shifting: Micro actions to release old patterns & step into your next level self

Today I'm teaching you about active shifting aka the way to stop repeating old patterns that keep you from stepping into the version of you who actually lives the life you want.

I break down how active shifting works, how to create micro awareness in the moment so you can consciously choose your new pattern instead of reacting from your old self.

Think: tiny decisions, stretched time, identity-level shifts, and choosing the version of you who’s consistent, regulated, responsible, and aligned with what you’re creating.

If you’re ready to upgrade who you are in small, powerful, everyday moments, this one is for you.

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88 stop holding it all together: Breakdowns & Breakthroughs

This episode is for the woman who’s been holding it all together, stuffing everything down, and convincing herself she doesn’t have time, space, or safety to break down. Maybe you think breaking down is weakness, failure, or bad energy for your manifestations. Spoiler: none of that is true.

We talk about why emotional breakdowns are actually a catalyst for breakthroughs, how bottling everything up blocks expansion, why sitting in emotions is different than actually moving them, and how safety, co-regulation, and nervous system capacity change everything.

You’ll learn how to let go in a way that creates space, not chaos and why releasing emotions helps you reset your nervous system, expand your window of tolerance, access deeper healing, and move forward without emotional hangovers.

If you’re tired of being “the strong one” all the time and you’re ready to break down without breaking apart, this episode is for you.

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85 Processing the heaviness of the world & how to move forward

This week’s episode is different than usual. With so much heaviness in the world right now, I felt called to discuss how to move through the fear, sadness, and collective energy without getting stuck in it, share a message from the Akashic Records, and begin to process the weight of what is happening.

This episode is an invitation to process, release, and reconnect with your truest self. Ultimately, my intention in this episode is you receive something you need to hear and find a path forward.

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84 When you're ready, but the universe isn't: Here's what to do when you feel blocked at every turn

Have you ever felt completely ready for change? Like you’ve done the work, you’ve made the decision, you’re all in, but it seems like the universe is blocking you at every turn? No matter how hard you try, things just won’t move forward.

In this episode, I’m breaking down why that happens and what it actually means when you’re ready to take action but the universe hasn’t lined things up yet. If you’ve ever felt like you’re pushing against a wall and nothing is working, this one’s for you.

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83 Waiting For "The Right Time": How to break the if-when-then cycle

If you’ve ever told yourself, “When I have more money, then I’ll travel…” or “When I feel ready, then I’ll start my business…”, you’re not alone. In this episode, I'm breaking down the “If/When/Then” trap that keeps so many people stuck waiting for the perfect moment that never comes.

I'm sharing examples, practical mindset shifts, and nervous-system-friendly strategies to help you stop waiting for life to start and start living it now.

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80 Anchoring In: The step between healing & embodiment for long-term results

This episode is for the person who’s done the work like healing, clearing, mindset shifts, and is ready to live it. To feel it. To finally embody the version of themselves they’ve been calling in.

I’m sharing what it means to “anchor in” to a new identity, belief, or frequency plus how to use anchor points, micro-actions, and nervous system support to embody your next-level self in real life.

Whether you’ve been trying to step into your power, shift your money mindset, or just feel more stable and aligned, this is the step that bridges the gap between intention and embodiment.

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77 Why surface-level healing isn’t working (& what to do instead)

Society sells us quick fixes for healing—mindset shifts, affirmations, and talk therapy alone—but why do so many people still feel stuck? In this episode, we’re breaking down the biggest myths about healing society promotes and uncovering what it actually takes to create deep, lasting transformation. If you’re ready to move beyond surface-level techniques and step into real healing, this is for you.

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75 How our trauma & childhood impact our love languages (& how you can change them)

In this episode, I explore the connection between love languages and trauma, and how past wounds can shape how we give and receive love. I share my journey of how my love languages changed after doing healing work as well as the shifts with clients and why this change happens.

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70 Understanding your trauma states: Fight, flight, fawn, freeze, disassociation & your window of tolerance

In this episode of Magnetic as Fuck, we’re diving deep into the trauma responses that shape our behaviors: fight, flight, freeze, fawn, and dissociation. If you’ve ever wondered why you react the way you do under stress or during conflict, this episode will help you understand and recognize the different states your nervous system enters.

We'll explore how these trauma responses can impact everything from your emotions to your relationships and how understanding them is the key to healing. This isn’t just about knowledge—it’s about learning how to regulate your nervous system, expand your capacity for stress, and become more grounded in your everyday life.

If you’re ready to discover how these trauma states might be playing a role in your life and how to start shifting into a more balanced, empowered state, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to recognize your own patterns and take the first steps toward healing from within.

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67 Religious trauma: Limiting beliefs, empowerment & dismantling of your belief system

I am sharing some of my journey with how religion impacted my belief systems and life. We explore what religion is, trauma based on it or how we interpret it, its long-term impacts, and how dismantling a belief system can affect your life.

This episode is not to bash or shame. It is to let others who have experienced trauma and limiting beliefs surrounding religion know you're not alone and that healing is possible. Tune in to find out more!

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66 Calling all empaths: Top reasons for being an empath, the empaths gifts & shadows, and how to embrace the empathic gift

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of empaths. If you've ever wondered why you resonate with the term "empath" or what it truly means to be one, this episode is for you.

Join me as we explore what it means to be an empath, the top 4 reasons people become an empath, the gifts & shadows of an empath, & the 3 essential steps to embrace your empathic gifts.

Whether you're an empath seeking to understand yourself better or someone looking to support an empathic loved one, this episode offers valuable insights and tips. Tune in to unlock the full potential of your empathic gifts and transform your sensitivity into a powerful tool for connection and growth.

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62 Expanding your capacity for life & stress aka your window of tolerance

Discussing what I mean when I say building your capacity for life, what is your window of tolerance, hyper vs hypo arousal levels, and what to do when you know you have major life changes coming up to stay in a present, grounded state without getting overwhelmed or exhausted.

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55 The ins & outs of nervous system regulation: what is it, regulated vs dysregulated, benefits & more

A lot of people talk about nervous system regulation, but so many don't actually know what it is or what it does for you. Let's dive into the different states of your nervous system, what nervous system regulation is, what it feels like to have a regulated vs dysregulated system, the main ways it benefits you to practice regulation techniques & more!

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